ENERGY DRAINS AND TOLERATIONS
How are things going for you and your dreams so far? Where have you been putting your focus? How have you been utilizing your affirmations?
Now is the perfect time to begin tending your Garden of Dreams in order to have your dreams flourish and prosper. In order to create a healthy Garden, as with any garden, you want to begin by pulling the weeds. So what are the weeds in your Garden? These are the energy drains, tolerations and limiting beliefs you may currently hold.
What IS draining your energy?
What ARE you tolerating?
Ready to let it all go?
If so, let’s begin by actually identifying the weeds in your garden, not with the intent of holding your focus on the things you don’t want, but simply to identify the weeds you can then pull from your garden once and for all!
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ENERGY DRAINS AND TOLERATIONS
Remember the five key life categories in which you created your Intention Statements and Goals?
They were:
- Relationships
- Right Livelihood
- Prosperity
- Body/Mind/Spirit
- Environment.
As I go through the list of energy drains, beginning with Relationships, if a statement is true for you, it is an energy drain for you. Write that down in your notebook or journal. This is for your eyes only so please be absolutely honest with yourself. If you’re not sure whether a statement is true for you or not, then write it down.
Relationships
There are relationships in my life that drain my energy.
There are people in my life to whom I give my power.
I have unfinished communications with friends/family.
I have unresolved conflict with someone in my life.
There is someone that I haven’t forgiven. (self included?)
There are relationships I need to end.
There is someone that I am avoiding.
There are relationships in my life that are not 100% truthful, self-responsible and healthy.
I lack quality friendships in my life.
I am so overwhelmed in my life that I neglect my friends/family.
What others are true for you? ________________________________________________________________
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Right Livelihood
I do not look forward to going to work each day.
My energy is depleted by the end of my day.
I feel overwhelmed and stressed at work.
I do not/can not express my creativity at work.
I am undervalued at work.
I tolerate behavior that is not in my highest good.
I am disorganized at work.
I have stayed at my job too long.
I do not maintain clear boundaries at work.
I am afraid to step into my full power at work.
What others are true for you? ________________________________________________________________
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Prosperity/Finances
I owe past taxes.
I have bills that are past due.
I spend more than I earn.
I have debt.
I do not have a savings account.
I do not know my credit rating.
I do not have adequate insurance coverage.
I’ve borrowed money that I haven’t paid back.
I have not started a retirement plan.
I live paycheck to paycheck.
What others are true for you? ________________________________________________________________
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Body/Mind/Spirit
I do not eat enough/I eat too much.
I eat food that does not nurture my body.
I do not exercise as much as I would like to.
I do not get enough sleep.
It is past time for me to get a physical exam/go to the dentist.
I have a medical problem that I’m not taking care of.
I would like to gain/lose weight.
I have consistent unmet emotional needs.
I lack a spiritual practice in my life.
What others are true for you? ________________________________________________________________
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Environment
I don’t even know what’s in my closets.
My environment does not reflect the best of who I am.
My car needs maintenance.
I’m not happy with where I live.
I watch too much TV/spend too much time on computer.
I have unfinished projects.
I have uncompleted commitments.
I need to clean my environment.
I need to communicate with the people/person I live with about creating a more conscious environment.
What others are true for you?
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| This week, as you move through your day, continue to identify the weeds in your garden by noticing what irritates you and what you find yourself in resistance to. Add those energy drains to your list of weeds to pull. | |
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| Remember not to judge yourself. You are where you are. It is the way it is – for now anyway. Next week, you’ll begin taking these energy drains and tolerations and removing them from your Garden one weed at a time! | |
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Have nothing in your houses
that you do not know to be useful or to be beautiful. - William Morris Your mind is a garden, Your garden will reveal yourself. |
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